If I am regretting anything in my life it is that I spent too much time feeling bad about having to start over.
After all… I am bonny and I should should get it right the first time. I was almost old...before I realized ...a “failure” is an opportunity for a new beginning. Oher people can judge me but as long as I am standing on my own feet and not stepping on anyone's toes, I have the opportunity of a new beginning. If I turn a mis-take into a re-gret, I miss the opportunity to take the situation to a new level.
Conscience makes big matters small. Negativity makes small matters big. It doesn't matter if other people look down on me. I should never look down on myself.
#1. Accept what happened. Nobody has the Midas touch and not everything will turn to gold. #2 We all fail. Failure or a mistake will happen to everyone at some time.
#3 Find out why. That is what counts rather than it was fate etc.
#4 It is the Art of Failure that makes for a great success the next time.
So, what did we learn. This is the hard part. Lack of preparation? Not enough information? Not enough time? Is there a common denominator to other failures? Did I put blinders on? Did I not respond to the warning signs?
If you are one of those people, and I am not one of them, that just sails thought difficult waters and comes out the other side without a scratch… hold on buddy, your time will come. On the other hand, if you can get used to failure and learn from each episode, you will be just fine.
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